In a deeply troubling incident that happened on 21st March 2025 in Nyamira County, Kenya, a widow was subjected to violence during her husband's funeral after refusing to engage in a traditional burial rite. The incident, which has garnered significant media attention and public outrage, highlights the broader issues of cultural practices and women's rights within the Abagusii community.
According to reports, the assault took place in the Nyabisimba area, where the widow was physically attacked by individuals believed to be her in-laws. Nyamira South Police Commander Martin Wambugu confirmed that three suspects have been arrested in connection with the incident, and they are set to be presented to the victim for identification.
A video shared on social media showed the widow being whipped after she declined to throw soil onto her husband’s coffin, a customary act expected of widows in the Abagusii culture. This situation highlights the pressure many women face to follow these traditions, even in times of grief.
This incident brings attention to the struggles of widows in the region, especially regarding their rights to land and property. Although Kenyan laws affirm equal inheritance rights for women, many widows still face threats of being thrown out of their homes or disinherited by their in-laws. Some are even wrongly accused of witchcraft, leading to further violence against them.
Public backlash against this violence has been widespread, with local leaders expressing their outrage. Jerusha Momanyi ,a Women Representative from Nyamira County stated
Authorities have promised to pursue justice and uphold women's rights in the community.
This tragic event shows that more needs to be done to protect women, especially widows, in Kenya. It's essential to promote legal changes, educate communities about women’s rights, and push for equality.
The situation in Nyamira calls everyone to action, including government officials, local organizations, and community leaders. Together, we must work against harmful cultural norms and create a safer environment where everyone, regardless of gender, can live with respect and dignity. Only then can we hope to achieve real change and equality in society